一句话瑜伽,第230期Kristen:你是如何忍受背叛的不公?How do you deal with the injustice of betrayal?
在我的人生有一个反复出现的主题,那就是当我成为受害者时,还要被泼脏水。There's been a reoccurring theme throughout my life of getting screwed over and then painted as the bad guy when I was the victim.
我不能告诉你这种事发生过多少次。活在不公平中是一件令人生气的事情。I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me. Living with the injustice can be infuriating.
我以前说过。感觉就像你百口莫辩,因为解释的举动会让你看起来很愚蠢。囧。I've said this before. And then feeling like you can't explain yourself because the act of explaining yourself makes you look stupid.It's a catch 22.
也许生活教会我不要去取悦那些不在乎你的人。不要试图取悦那些选择看你出丑而不顾真相的人。Maybe life is teaching me to stop trying to please people who don't care anyways. To stop trying to please those who will choose to see you how they desire despite the truth.
我常常发现自己太在乎那些不关心我的人。在这个过程中,我意识到有多少人在等着看我好戏。I often find myself caring far too much about those who don't care about me.And in the process I realize how many people have been waiting to watch me fail.
他们从未为我守候。这听起来像是一场遗憾的聚会,但我问心无愧。That they never really were there for me.This sounds like a pity party but I'm just being completely honest.
你是如何应对背叛的?在我心里这是沉痛的。这很糟。我是受害者,却还要被落井下石。How do you dea1 with betrayal? This is heavy on my mind.It sucks.I am done being the victim and still holding the lower end of the stick.
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