小鱼寄语:在传统的观念中,失败的确是让人感到沮丧的,甚至是让人感到耻辱,感到有伤自尊心。当你遭遇失败的时候也是你最脆弱的时候,失败难道真的只能用这些令人悲观的词语来形容吗?绝不是这样的。乔·吉拉德说:每一次的失败都会增加下一次成功的机会。可见,失败就是成长的机会,Lily认为失败是美丽的,同时不要因为失败而慌不择路,误入歧途。
一句话瑜伽,第310期Lily:谦逊地失败,优雅地失败,美丽的失败,因为这才是失败。。。。一次美丽的机会去改变你的方向,再试一次。Fail humbly. Fail gracefully.Fail beautifully.Because that's what failure is.... a beautiful opportunity to shift your course and try again.
昨天,我经历了拒绝——这使我感到非常失望——然后让我体会失败的经验。Yesterday, I experienced rejection - which lead me to feel extremely disappointed - then left me in the experience of failure.
我希望去接受:决定前往不同方向的一次机会,决定和某个人为伍。An opportunity that I was hoping to receive decided to go in a different direction...decided to go with someone else.
我生气并且责问,这条路是不是对的,我的梦想是不是慌不择路。I sulked and questioned if I was on the :right path. lf I had made the wrong decision to go after something I dreamed of.
然后我意识到那个机会不是给我的,而是给别人的。然而,我更清楚自己正朝着正确的方向前进。Then I realized that opportunity wasn't meant for me.It was meant for someone else.Yet, I' m even moreclear that I'm heading in the right direction.
所以,不要因为你踢到铁板就意味着你选错了方向。So, just because you hit a roadblock it doesn't mean you choose the wrong direction.
它只是意味着你需要重新安排到达目的地的路线。和我分享,你想在哪里改变方向?It just means you need to reroute the course to get to your destination.Share with me - where are you rerouting your course?
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