一句话瑜伽,第353期Nina:我的教授曾经告诉我:“永远不要被胜利冲昏头脑,永远不要让失败占据你的内心。要谦虚、诚实以及有韧性。”My professor once told me "never let success get into your head and never let failure get into your heart. Be humble, be honest and be resilient ."
我必须承认,过去的我被名利所包围。I must confess l used to be so snob.
从班级第一名,实习,工作,再到成为媒体工作者,成功总是常伴我左右。因为我的完美主义以及工作热情,我冷落了友情。It took me good years of work and connections/ friends that I lost. Because I was always perfectionist and workaholic, success was on my side most of time. First of class, residency, jobs, published papers, involved in so many researches BLA BLA BLA!
最终,我成了一个只在乎各种头衔的人。然而没有一个头衔,能让我成为一个有血有肉的人。At the end, I was truly the ONLY PERSON that cared for so many titles. None of them really described me as person.
我是如此害怕职业上的失败,以至于连自己活得很失败都不知道。I was so afraid of professional failure that I didn't notice that I was a complete failure in my personal life.
实际上,通过瑜伽我才找回了自己,反思自己的所作所为。It was actually thru yoga that I learned to understand myself. Questioning my actions and reactions.
明白了,拥有无价的爱、平静以及快乐,才配称得上是一个真正成功的人。Understanding that a real successful person is actually someone that has things that are priceless: love, peace,happiness.
因此,我不再是那个势利的我,因为比起失败,我更介意的是失去人心。So, before I had a huge fear of failure in a egocentricst and point. Now, when I fear it, it's mostly related to failing with people.
VIA 福安市远航教育、小鱼儿
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